NikMati - Thought Control

Home is where you’re supposed to feel safe but for some, it is not. Far from it. Parents are meant to bring joy and love to their kids but most of them give nothing of the sort. They accept perfection from their kids and fail to see that their flaws are what make them special.

Children were born with free will and happiness. It is the foundation of one’s existence but unfortunately, others don’t see it that way. Instead, the parents would fill the child’s head with the complete opposite: hard determinism and anguish. Oftentimes, they think what they’re doing is right without knowing the child goes into a deep depression, anxiety and worse, suicidal thoughts. Disciplining does not have to be harsh. It can be affectionate if done right.

To all parents out there, please be there for your loved ones. Don’t rationalize, don’t assume and don’t be a dick. Be nice, be gentle and learn to accept flaws. You can’t change someone who they are not meant to be. They are your children so be supportive of them. Acceptance is key.